Remedy Whispers ~ Sepia~The Remedy That Gave Me Back to Myself
- laurahardywellness

- Nov 22
- 3 min read

Some remedies don’t just shift symptoms.
They remind you of the part of yourself you forgot was missing.
They bring you back to the woman you were
before you were stretched thin,
before you were poured out to emptiness,
before life asked you to hold more than a human heart was meant to carry.
For me, that remedy was Sepia.
Where the Story Begins
There was a season in my life when I was functioning,
but not living.
I was doing everything I was “supposed” to do —
caring, giving, holding, managing, supporting —
but inside I felt like an echo of myself.
Not broken.
Just… gone.
Something in me was dissolving quietly.
My spark.
My softness.
My voice.
I wasn’t angry — not really.
More like overwhelmed.
Flat.
Exhausted in a way sleep couldn’t touch.
I loved my people deeply,
yet the constant proximity, the needs, the noise
made me want to pull away from the very life I had built.
And the guilt…
the guilt was its own kind of weight.
Folklore & Symbolism
Sepia is prepared from the ink of the cuttlefish —
a creature who darkens the waters around her
when she feels threatened or overstimulated.
This ink is not aggression.
It’s protection.
A boundary.
A moment to breathe.
Sepia carries that same energy:
the healing power of stepping back
so you can step back into yourself.
The Sepia Pattern
Sepia is often the remedy for the woman who has been carrying everything.
The one whose backbone has become the family’s backbone.
The one who pushes through because stopping isn’t an option.
The one who feels “done” but keeps showing up anyway.
You see Sepia in the woman who:
loves deeply but feels emotionally drained
feels touched-out, needed-out, and sensory overwhelmed
withdraws to survive
feels resentment she doesn’t want to feel
loses her spark, her joy, her sexuality, her creativity
wants space, stillness, and one moment where no one needs anything from her
feels flat, numb, irritable, or like she’s disappearing into roles
Physically, Sepia often shows up in:
hormonal exhaustion
PMS, postpartum depletion
pelvic heaviness or bearing-down sensations
constipation
headaches
chronic fatigue
hair loss
skin eruptions that flare with hormones or stress
Emotionally, Sepia can look like:
“I love you, but I need everyone to back up.”
Feeling disconnected from self or others
Feeling overwhelmed by noise, demands, and touch
Wanting to run away, even from the people you adore
Feeling guilty for needing space
Feeling like you’re holding the world with empty hands
When the Remedy Lands
When Sepia is the right fit, the shift feels like someone quietly sliding a missing piece back into place.
You breathe differently.
You stand differently.
You speak differently.
Your spark flickers again — not in a dramatic way,
but in a steady, grounded way.
Clients tell me:
“Something lifted.”
“I feel more like myself again.”
“I don’t want to run away anymore.”
“The overwhelm is lighter.”
“I can breathe around my family again.”
“My patience is back — and so am I.”
That’s the gift of Sepia:
It doesn’t make you someone new.
It returns you to the woman you were
before exhaustion erased the edges of your soul.
A Note From My Heart
Sepia is one of the remedies closest to my story.
It brought me back to clarity,
to creativity,
to peace,
to a voice I didn’t realize I had silenced,
to a life that felt like mine again —
not just a list of responsibilities I was surviving.
If something in these words feels familiar…
If you recognize the emptiness, the overwhelm,
the quiet resentment you don’t want to name
or the longing for space to breathe…
please hear this gently:
You are not failing.
You are not ungrateful.
You are not alone.
You are tired.
And there is a difference.
There is nothing wrong with needing space,
needing support,
needing to feel like you again.
There is a grace in finally saying:
“I can’t carry all of this alone.”
And there is a remedy for the woman
holding the world with empty hands.
If you’re curious whether Sepia —
or homeopathy in general —
may help you come home to yourself again,
I would be honored to walk that journey with you.
With love,
Laura
Gentle Disclaimer
This post is for educational purposes only.
If Sepia resonates with you, please consult a qualified homeopath for personalized guidance.
LAURA HARDY WELLNESS
Laura Hardy PDHom Adv, RSHom is a Registered Homeopath in Vanceboro, NC, seeing clients both online, internationally, and at her clinic in Vanceboro.
Website www.laurahardywellness.com
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